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也许你会很奇怪,戒赌跟吃有什么关系啊?诶,你还别说,真有关系!且听鄙人一一道来:7 |2 _$ n: t3 M2 o7 ?- c
你为什么赌啊?想过吗?如果你连为什么赌都不知道,我想,你肯定不会知道如何戒赌。好比国王要抓一个大盗,那必须打听清楚他住哪,或活动在哪?戒赌也是一个道理,你连为什么赌都不知道,你凭什么来戒赌呢?有的人要说了,我就是玩着玩着赌上的,怎么会不知道呢!你这不是知道,因为你不知道玩什么时候变成了赌,这个微细的心理变化你没有在第一时间觉察,所以玩变成了赌!' H d$ P/ O9 x* g
既然你不知道,我就继续说了,赌和玩是两种心态,一个有明显的胜负心,也可以叫欲望!另一个是无计心,无所谓,玩玩而已,但是玩也经常会参杂着欲望(去玩玩,碰碰运气嘛),不过娱乐心胜过欲望的时候我们就是叫娱乐了,反之,玩到一定时候欲望心胜过娱乐心,那你就麻烦了,这正式标志着你进入赌的行列了,这还是初级水平。至于赌的级别什么的,吧里的大神们曾经也发过了,那无非是欲望心占的比例多少罢了,当大到一定程度,就是欲望心战胜理智的时候,那就是正式赌徒了!) T7 b$ M+ I& d3 u) V4 N' Y
好吧,既然你知道是淫欲心是怎么Dubo的根本原因了,那我得掏老本出来了,因为国王你知道大盗在哪了,你还愣着干嘛?行动!对付这个恶魔——欲望!欲望怎么对付?素食!你可能一头雾水了,素食?对,不信你就百度吧,素食可以清心寡欲,清心寡欲导致胜负心(欲望)减弱,从而从根本上拔除赌的源头,这才是戒赌最根本的办法,可以说是中医,也可以说是法医。
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+ v2 M/ ?0 P; [9 x插曲:4年前,我曾经也是个赌鬼,经常弄的店里交不起房租,甚至孩子的奶粉钱都是经常成问题,也幸亏机缘巧合吧,错综复杂,反正不知不觉接触佛法,最后因生起慈悲心,素食了。一切也是从那时开始的,素食后心非常平静,整个人走路也是很轻安的,非常舒适,素食这几年几乎没有生过病,最关键的就是,Dubo彻底戒除了。当然,我不要求你学佛法,你要戒赌,就必须从素食开始,没有别的选择了。当然,你觉得这三寸舌头的享受更重要,那我也无能为力了,我只能做到的就是告诉你,这是个非常好的,廉价的,性价比最高,实践最方便的戒赌方法了。
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